Secrets of Successful Parents

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Successful parenting involves more than just bringing a child into the world through conception and giving birth. It involves raising a child right and ensuring that they become the best they can possibly be. It requires encouraging your child to follow his or her dreams, making them able to fit into the society and have a personality that will enable them to conquer the world. The following are secrets of successful parents:

1. Allow your child to dream big
You should never look down on your child’s dreams no matter how ridiculous they may seem. Successful parents allow their children to dream. They help them work towards building their dreams and achieving their goals. As kids grow up, their dreams also grow and become more realistic. For instance, at age 6 they may dream of building SpongeBob a better house and get him out of the pineapple. At age 13 this dream will maybe change to building a better house for grandma. Who knows at 22 this child might be a very successful architect. To put it in a nutshell, learn to encourage your child to dream and help them build on the dream.

2. Acquire good communication skills
Good communication is a necessary ingredient for a successful parent-child relationship. Successful parenting involves working on your communication skills. Learn to listen to your child. Work on understanding them. In order to successfully communicate with your child you should embrace a language that will not criticize or hurt them much. Unsuccessful parenting involves ridiculing and rejecting your child’s thoughts and ideas. Always control your reactions. Use words that will build them up and not destruct them emotionally when correcting them. Proper communication with your child will give you an easy time parenting them. CSA contact information can be obtained online.

3. Shower them with love
Children who have been raised in loving homes grow up to be successful individuals with high self-esteem. It is important to show your children that you love them unconditionally. Do not abuse or belittle them but rather correct them appropriately. Teach them how to love and care for others. Teach them how to share and show empathy. Respect them too, just like how you expect them to show you respect. Actions such as hugging them and constantly saying “I love you” will go a long way in showing them love.

4. Get creative
Successful parenting involves being flexible and creative. It involves breaking away from the old parenting guide book and instead innovating new ways to successfully parent a child. Always be ready to try a new strategy. Experiment till you find what works perfectly for you.

5. Be ready to change your attitude
At times parents might try to change a child’s behavior or attitude with no success. Successful parenting involves being ready to also change your attitude along with your child’s. You never know; you may be the cause of your child’s negative attitude or behavior. You should be ready to listen and take criticism positively.

Leo says that “It is advisable for every parent to have the CSA contact information for you never know when you might need it.”

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  • Marina Klima September 20, 2013, 12:39 pm

    I honestly agree to all the points you have mentioned in your post. As our kids grow up, we cannot control the influences made by their peers, so communication plays a major role in upbringing our children.
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    • Amy LeForge September 20, 2013, 11:08 pm

      Amen, Marina. 🙂

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