Family Photos You’ll Want to Remember

pages of old photographs of family members

I think one of the trickiest, most understated parts of parenting is keeping up with the photo album. It’s hard to have a camera on you at all times for those cute moments that you’d like to cherish forever: your three year old spilling spaghetti sauce all over the clean, white carpet; your kids fighting and screaming over who gets to hold the new toy; etc. Things have changed a bit with the advent of the smartphone. Now pretty much everyone has a camera on them at all times, making it easier to catalogue random moments in your kids’ childhoods without lugging around a big camera. I would definitely still keep the names of some professional photographers though, unless you want the family photo on your mantlepiece to be a blurry, pixelated jpeg with bad lighting.

The traditional family album itself is changing now. Most people store their photos online, either on iPhoto, Facebook, or just in a desktop folder or external hard drive. I have to admit, it makes me a little sad to think that the thick, dusty photo album of yesteryear is going extinct. Merely the sight of that old tome used to conjure feelings of nostalgia and deep family heritage. Now it almost just seems unnecessary. After all, the photos themselves will perish eventually, unless you digitize them. And at that point, with virtually everything else going online or digital, yeah, why not just store the photos on your computer?

I’m not arguing one way or the other, except to say that it is still important to capture those timeless family photos. All too often, it’s easy to convince yourself that you’re too busy and ‘oh, he’ll walk for the first time again,’ but the reality is many of these moments are once in a lifetime. You may look back someday and regret that you don’t have a photo of your kids trying to lasso the family dog, or getting dressed up for their first Halloween. For the most part, people are taking more pictures than ever these days. But are they pictures they’ll want to remember? Make sure you’re capturing the essence of your family. Someday, they’ll thank you and you’ll thank yourself.

Earnest Parenting: help for parents who want to preserve those special memories.

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  • Debbie@happymaker April 5, 2012, 2:07 pm

    Hi Amy,

    You are right, those pictures are very important and with the technogy they have today, everyone should be capturing those moments.

    When my kids where small we didn’t have it as easy to get those pictures and it was not cheap either.

    thank you for reminding everyone to capture those little moments.

    Blessings,

    Debbie

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    • Amy LeForge April 5, 2012, 3:36 pm

      Thanks Debbie! I have been terrible about getting photos printed; it’s something I want to improve this year.

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  • How to Parent Today April 5, 2012, 4:31 pm

    I have both, digital and hardcopy. After a scare recently when 5 years of photos disappeared from my laptop ( I did get them back again!) I have backed them up, and then backed up the back up!

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  • Natalie @MamaTrack April 29, 2012, 11:17 am

    I’m really focused on photographing my kids right now. And I regret the years when I just grabbed occasional shots with my smartphone. Thanks for this!

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    • Amy LeForge April 30, 2012, 3:47 pm

      Now that I’ve learned how to get the photos off the smartphone, I’m not feeling as guilty. I just have to start getting pics actually printed!

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  • David November 17, 2013, 7:43 am

    You are so right and it’s so easy (and “free”) to take photos these days that it seems shameful to miss out on opportunities. If you don’t like the quality or light or whatever you can always just delete it. And of course back up what you want to keep – even if you get them printed. I was going through some family albums my mother has and wanted to reproduce some pictures, but couldn’t find the negatives. Scanning just doesn’t do it for me.

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