Sammy

microphone lying on table

I’ve known a beautiful young lady at my church for several years now. Her name is Samantha, but most of us call her Sam for short.

When so many families left the church two summers ago in the split, Sam lost some friends that she adored. I know it was pretty hard on her. Not to worry, she fell deeply in love with our new pastor and his wife shortly after they moved here last June.

Sam is a pretty talkative girl one on one, but she’s not been real expressive in front of a crowd. She has told me many times that she’s going to sing with us up front on Sunday mornings, but we rarely convince her to actually join us when the time actually arrives.

Before I continue with this story, I need to tell you something about Sam. She has Down’s Syndrome.

This past Saturday, the church held a benefit spaghetti dinner and Sam’s family was there helping out. While we were cleaning up afterward a teen turned on the microphones and somehow Sammy got up on stage and started singing her heart out. For probably 20 minutes, we were regaled with “I love Marrrrrrk” and “I love Robinnnnnnn”. Everyone there was smiling about her love songs. When I told Hubby about it later he was surprised at her boldness and bummed he’d missed it.

Pastor Mark looked up during the singing and told me that Sam also types pages and pages of notes to him, and that while a lot of it is indecipherable, every now and then you can pick out the words “mook” and “sam”. He said that he’s got one note in particular that he keeps in his Bible, and that on days when he’s feeling down he takes it out and looks at it and remembers “Sammy loves me.”

Two things really hit me.

1) The little expressions of love that we make can have great meaning to others.

2) There’s value in every life my friends.

Earnest Parenting: helping parents remember what’s really important.

The editor-in-chief of Earnest Parenting, Amy is the mother of two sets of twin boys. Yes, they drive her crazy, but they also make her laugh occasionally. Amy enjoys writing, quilting, reading, and working on her burgeoning cyber empire.

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  • Shirley King March 5, 2008, 10:17 am

    I am Sam’s mom and tears came to my eyes when I read this. I remember when I was pregnant for Sam that I was thinking they grow up to fast and it made me sad to know that it would not be long before she would not need me or want to sit on my lap. This however is not so. God listened to my heart and sent Sam. Even tho it sometimes makes me a little sad that she can not do some things others can I am remember how blessed I am that she will always need and love me. I praise God for her. I would not change her for anything or anyone in the world.

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  • -beverly erb March 5, 2008, 9:32 pm

    I am Sam’s aunt.I am proud to say that I am happy to
    hear that she was brave enough to get up and sing
    infront of a crowd.God was standing next to her and giving her
    courgage.WAY TO GO SAM

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  • office space philippines April 12, 2009, 11:28 pm

    I had just read this article. I can say that Sam is really blessed, specially with her family that loves her and always at her side giving her full support and love. She is not scared to shout her feelings out loud! God surely has a great life story for her.

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  • Amy April 15, 2009, 12:15 am

    office space philippines, yes she is. Sammy is a very special girl. πŸ™‚

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  • Elizabeth November 1, 2013, 1:44 am

    I am Sami’s sister <3 She is the most amazing, and sweet, big sister you could ask for. She s really come out of her shell since 2008. πŸ™‚

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